Week 13 – Truth #3: Your Future Self Is the Pied Piper

A Compelling Vision Pulls You Forward

When Maria retired at 67, she felt a mix of relief and uncertainty. The quiet mornings she’d once dreamed of now stretched long and empty. One afternoon, she imagined her life ten years ahead—what would her 77-year-old self look like?

The image surprised her. She saw herself as a mentor, surrounded by younger women, sharing stories and encouragement. The vision felt real, warm, and purposeful.

The next week, Maria signed up to volunteer at a local community center. Soon, she was leading a small group that helped women re-enter the workforce. “Once I pictured that future,” she said, “I couldn’t help moving toward it. It felt like it was already calling me.”

Research 

Psychologists have found that people with vivid images of their future selves show stronger motivation, persistence, and goal achievement. When the vision feels emotionally real, it acts like a magnetic pull—guiding your choices, attracting opportunities, and quieting distractions.

Your future self becomes the Pied Piper—leading you, gently but powerfully, toward the life you truly want.

Simple Tips to Try

This week, create your own “pull”:

• Name Three People, Places, or Routines That Pull You Forward. Who or what inspires your best self? Write them down.

• Schedule One Activity That Aligns With Your Vision. If you see yourself as a mentor, artist, or traveler—take one small step today.

• Tell One Person About Your Goal. Speaking it aloud makes it real and keeps you accountable.

Every time you move in harmony with your vision, you strengthen its pull.

Anchor Question

“What picture of my future self feels strong enough to pull me into action?”

Take a few minutes to imagine that image—see it, feel it, believe it. Then let it lead you.

Call to Action

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Stay tuned—next week we’ll share how to turn your reflections into a personalized Future Self Plan that helps you live with confidence, clarity, and purpose.

Carol Marak, Solo Aging Expert